Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Aging-Related Blogs and Online Publications



The New Old Age; Caring and Coping. The New York Times. http://newoldage.blogs.nytimes.com/

Time Goes By: What it's Really Like to Get Older. http://www.timegoesby.net/

Caregivers of Older Adults, mmLearn.org. http://training.mmlearn.org/blog

Elder Law Prof Blog. http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/elder_law/

ChangingAging; Exploring Life Beyond Adulthood. http://changingaging.org/

The Purple Jacket; Be a Healthy Caregiver. http://changingaging.org/

Refined by Age. http://refinedbyage.com/

Age is More. http://www.ageismore.com/Ageismore/Home.aspx

Yo, Is this Ageist? http://yoisthisageist.com/

This Chair Rocks. http://www.thischairrocks.com/

Positive Aging LLC. http://s404764450.initial-website.com/articles-presentations/


Tuesday, March 18, 2014

How to Feel Happier by Doing These Simple Things




1. Exercise more, even 7 minutes a day might be enough. Research with three groups of patients with a diagnosis of depression indicated that of the three, the group that exercised, without taking any anti-depressants, were much less likely to relapse after 6 months.

2. Sleep More. Having enough sleep makes us less susceptible to feeling emotions such as anger or fear. We feel happier.

3. Shorten your Commute. Nothing like a long commute to drag you down during your work week.

4. Spend time with friends and family. The most important key to happiness in life, according to various research studies, is having good relationships with family and friends. Money doesn’t appear to buy happiness, once a certain point is reached.

5. Go Outdoors. Happiness is maximized at 13.9 C. That’s 57 F. The study was done in England. Might be higher in Arizona.

6. Help Others. 100 hours a year is the magical number.

7. Practice Smiling. A fake smile doesn’t do it. Try to find something to smile about. A fake smile can lead to a real one, however, so don’t despair.

8. Plan a Trip. You don’t necessarily have to take it. The best part of a vacation seems to be during the planning of it.

9. Meditate. Meditation increases calmness, contentment, and empathy for others.

10. Practice Gratitude. Keep a journal on gratitude; share your good times with friends or family. Give thanks to others.

Finally, just getting older tends to make people feel happier. One hypothesis is that older people have learned how to regulate their moods better than younger ones. They do the things that maximize their happiness. Whatever floats their boat!

From: 10 Simple Things You Can Do Today That Will Make You Happier, Backed by Science by Belle Beth Cooper. The full article is here: http://blog.bufferapp.com/10-scientifically-proven-ways-to-make-yourself-happier

- Adapted from: http://www.taosinstitute.net/2014-janfeb

Friday, January 3, 2014

Urine Therapy Prolongs Life (maybe)

Urine Therapy - The Guardian

I found an interesting article on The Guardian News Website on 02 Jan 2014.  It is written by Chukwuma Muanya, The Guardian's Print Reporter of the Year.

The article is titled, Urine Therapy May Prolong Life, Cure Skin Problems, Cancers, Others.

It's a lengthy article, but I thought it was worth sharing.  Sometimes things sound "wacky", and this is one of them.  They may be on to something.  However, I am not going to start drinking my urine anytime soon.

Have a read, and give me your comments below.

Cheers!

Angela G. Gentile

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Will you live to be 100?



Check out this piece at Healthy Living MSN.com, called, "10 Surprising Clues You'll Live to 100". 

Not sure if everyone wants to live to 100, but if you are a woman, your chances are higher.

Click here:  http://healthyliving.msn.com/health-wellness/aging/10-surprising-clues-youll-live-to-100-1#1

Have an awesome day!

-- Angela G. Gentile

Thursday, June 6, 2013

105-Year-Old Driver Doesn't Think He's Old



Kudos to Mr. Bob Edwards, who is 105 and lives in New Zealand with his 91-year-old wife.  Still drives three times a week and doesn't think he's old.  Heck, the world's oldest driver was 108.

Read about it, here:  http://www.wheels.ca/news/105-year-old-new-zealand-man-is-one-of-worlds-oldest-drivers/

Have a great day!

-- Angela G. Gentile

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

The Aging Revolution



Read this article by Virginia Bell, The Aging Revolution: There's never been a better time to be older.

"There's a movement building that has less to do with how you look and more about how you feel."

Have an awesome day!

-- Angela G. Gentile

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

When Dementia Strikes


iStockphoto.com
I have been doing some research on Resident-to-Resident Aggression in long term care, when the aggressive person has a diagnosis of dementia.  In extreme cases, dementia can cause people to react or respond aggressively towards others, sometimes leading to criminal offenses and sometimes even death.

I have also been working with couples who live in their own home, where the husband has a diagnosis of dementia, and has been physically aggressive towards his wife.  These situations are particularly risky for the wife due to her husband's ability to become agitated and harm her, combined with her desire to keep him home as long as possible.  The reverse can also be true, when the wife has dementia.

Aggression in people with dementia is a big problem in Canada, and I am sure around the world.  Here is a collection of articles from around the internet on stories that I thought were worth noting.  Hopefully we will be able to find a better solution for managing, treating and housing people with dementia who have the potential to harm others, in order to keep people safe, and to protect the dignity of those living with dementia.

Long Term Care (Institutional):

April 11, 2013, Australia:  Assaults in Nursing Homes go Unreported or Hundreds of Dementia Assaults going Unreported

March 15, 2013, Canada:  Woman killed, another injured, in attack at seniors residence in Scarborough

March 12, 2013, USA:  Resident-to-Resident Assault in Minnesota Nursing Homes

Feb. 9, 2013, Canada:  More than 10,000 Canadians Abused Annually by fellow nursing home residents

Oct. 26, 2012, Canada:  B.C. Senior Pushed to Her Death in Care Home

Feb. 8, 2012, USA:  No Murder Charges Against Man with Alzheimer's

June 11, 2011, Canada:  Double Murder in Nursing Home A Wake-Up Call

March 29, 2011, Canada:  Man, 87, Dies After Winnipeg Care Home Assault

June 11, 2010, UK:  Care Home Resident, 83, Killed Stranger He Mistook for His Wife

December 11, 2009, USA:  Roommate, 98, indicted for murder in 100-year-old woman's nursing home death

November 30, 2003, USA:  3 dementia patients dead in shooting.



Private Dwellings (Non-Institutional):

October 4, 2012, USA:  Wife, 77, Accused of murdering husband may suffer from dementia - continued making victim's meals for days while corpse remained

April 6, 2012, USA:  Shrewsbury Man Accused of Killing Wife, Cannibalism

Nov. 2011, USA:  Dementia Sufferer, 96, 'Batters 81-year-old-wife to death after thinking she had stolen his money'

May 11, 2001, USA:  Elderly man charged in death.


Documentaries:

February 9, 2013 - W5 - Crisis in Care, CTV

May 13, 2011 - Nursing Home Violence Show ,White Coat, Black Art, CBC

2007 - Grey, Black and Blue: Nursing Home Violence, Canadian Broadcasting Corporation.

October 22, 2007 - Nursing Homes: Fear and Violence, Canadian Broadcasting Corporation

A sad and horrific state of affairs. 

Regards,

Angela G. Gentile

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Aging in the Movies



For my course on "Social Aspects of Aging", we had an opportunity to watch a movie which has an older person playing a significant role.  I started searching for a movie to watch, and in my research, I came up with a list of movies that I have either seen or want to see that has an older adult in a main role.  Here are some of the movies I came up with:

On Golden Pond (1981) (Husband has memory problems)

Driving Miss Daisy (1989) (Older woman develops dementia)

Grumpy Old Men (1993)

Grumpier Old Men (1995)

Away From Her (2006) (Wife develops dementia)

The Bucket List (2007)

Up (2009)

The First Grader (2010)

Robot & Frank (2012)

The Notebook (2004) (Wife develops dementia)

Amour (2012) (Wife has a stroke and what looks to be vascular dementia)

Late Bloomers (2011) (about an older married couple)

Lovely, Still (2008) (Husband develops dementia)

Still Mine (2012) (Wife has memory problems)

Here is a listing from another site about "Movies Depicting Alzheimer's Disease:  http://thegenerationaboveme.blogspot.ca/2013/02/movies-depicting-alzheimers-disease.html

Here's a list of The 10 Best Films About Aging and the Elderly:  http://www.popmatters.com/post/174004-the-10-best-films-about-agingthe-elderly-of-all-time/

What movies would you add?

Cheers!

Angela G. Gentile

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Is Your Diet Ageing You?



I like reading articles on how to age well.  Most articles I read about on aging tend to focus on our looks and the fact is, we are all going to show signs of age if we are lucky enough to live long.  I would like to see more articles that focus on aging well.  The tips mentioned in the article "Is Your Diet Ageing You?" on Yahoo have an overall health benefit, and the focus on avoiding crow's feet is ridiculous.  It's like when we talk about focusing on getting skinny when we are on a diet and exercise regime vs. getting healthy and physically fit. 

The simple solution is healthy lifestyle choices.  Eat well, exercise, avoid smoke and sun exposure and get a good dose of positive social contact.  Such a simple solution to Living Long and Well.

Check out the article, Is Your Diet Ageing You? on Yahoo and see what tips are recommended by the experts.  Avoiding sugar and junk food are two of the "tips".  Haven't we heard that one before?

Source:  http://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/new-idea/health/news/article/-/14632976/is-your-diet-ageing-you/#comments

Have a great day!

Angela G. Gentile

Thursday, June 21, 2012

The Centenarian Diet

Special thanks to Muhammed Saleem for forwarding this information on Centenarians.  Great infographic on centenarians and the centenarian diet.  Living to 100+.


Source:  http://www.termlifeinsurance.org
For a larger version, go to this link:  http://www.termlifeinsurance.org/the-centenarian-diet/

Cheers,
Angela Gentile

Monday, April 23, 2012

The Joys of Aging




Wisdom, children/grandchildren, technology, recreation, travel, less stress and better communication.

These are some of The Joys of Aging.  From the Jamaica Observer.

Check out the full article here: http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/The-joys-of-aging

Have an awesome day,

Angela Gentile


Saturday, April 21, 2012

Get Real - The New Old Age


Read about the "dangers" of focusing on the belief that we have control over our destiny when it comes to how we age.  Getting real about living a healthy, active life and understanding that there are certain aspects that are out of our control is the most healthy way to approach getting older.


Have a great day!

Angela Gentile

Monday, April 2, 2012

How Aging Can Affect Your Sex Life



It's no secret that getting older can affect your sex life.  "How Ageing Affects Your Sex Life" is an article I found on the Times of India website.  There are a number of key points to consider when people are having difficulties in the "relations" area of their lives.  It includes information on menopause, medications, premature ejaculation, emotions and testosterone.  It is written with the expert input of Dr. Pulkit Sharma, Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalytical Therapist at the VIMHANS Hospital in Delhi.

Check out the complete article, here: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health/How-ageing-affects-your-sex-life/articleshow/12502220.cms

Have a great day,
Angela Gentile

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Lines of Beauty

Louise Cady-Fernandes, of Lines of Beauty 
Online, you can find numerous websites, blogs and articles written about getting older. That's the beauty of the world wide web.  We can share our opinions, insights and ideas with other like-minded individuals. There are many talented, optimistic hopefuls that encourage others to embrace our age, rather than dread it.  Every so often I come across a blog or website that uplifts, encourages and inspires.

Check out this blog, Lines of Beauty by Louise Cady-Fernandes.  She has a lot of great articles, pictures and tips on aging gracefully, one beautiful wrinkle at a time.

Thanks Louise, keep up the great work.

Cheers,
Angela Gentile

Saturday, March 31, 2012

How to Keep Your Voice Sounding Spry



People are very interested in aging well.  Appearances, physical health and mental health often get most of the attention.  Today I found this article that discusses how to keep your voice sounding spry.  Heaven forbid our voice sounds "old".  Those who work so hard at keeping fit, healthy and young at heart can't hide their age if the voice sounds old and raspy.

From the article, New Treatments Keep the Aging Voice Spry:

Tips for Preserving Speech for a Lifetime:

  • Drink at least 64 ounces of water a day to maintain hydration.
  • Support the voice from abdominal muscles when speaking or singing.
  • Avoid "vocally abusive" activities such as yelling, screaming, coughing and throat-clearing.
  • Warm up the voice before using it.
  • Don't talk or sing at unnatural pitches.
  • Stay away from over-the-counter medications such as aspirin, which thin the blood and increase the risk of bleeding of the vocal folds.
  • Drinks including caffeine and alcohol remove moisture from your system and should each be counteracted with an equal-sized glass of water.
Those days of "vocally abusive" yelling, screaming, coughing and throat-clearing should be long gone for those who want a beautiful voice.  So I advise, don't try to talk to your companion at the next concert.  If you have to cough, do it lightly.  Clear your throat with caution.  



Photo credit: http://www.increaseyourvocalrange.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/iStock_000013702862XSmall3.jpg

In the words of William James, I don't sing because I'm happy; I'm happy because I sing. 

Have a great day,
Angela Gentile

Friday, March 30, 2012

Should I Really Join Facebook?




Read it all the way through! It's a good laugh! AND really quite true!!

A good laugh for people in the over 50 group !!!

When I bought my Blackberry, I thought about the 30-year business I ran with 1800 employees, all without a cell phone that plays music, takes videos, pictures and communicates with Facebook and Twitter. I signed up under duress for Twitter and Facebook, so my seven kids, their spouses, 13 grandkids and 2 great grandkids could communicate with me in the modern way. I figured I could handle something as simple as Twitter with only 140 characters of space.

That was before one of my grandkids hooked me up for Tweeter, Tweetree, Twhirl, Twitterfon, Tweetie and Twittererific Tweetdeck, Twitpix and something that sends every message to my cell phone and every other program within the texting world.

My phone was beeping every three minutes with the details of everything except the bowel movements of the entire next generation. I am not ready to live like this. I keep my cell phone in the garage in my golf bag.

The kids bought me a GPS for my last birthday because they say I get lost every now and then going over to the grocery store or library. I keep that in a box under my tool bench with the Blue tooth [it's red] phone I am supposed to use when I drive. I wore it once and was standing in line at Barnes and Noble talking to my wife and everyone in the nearest 50 yards was glaring at me. I had to take my hearing aid out to use it, and I got a little loud.

I mean the GPS looked pretty smart on my dash board, but the lady inside that gadget was the most annoying, rudest person I had run into in a long time. Every 10 minutes, she would sarcastically say, "Re-calc-u-lating." You would think that she could be nicer. It was like she could barely tolerate me. She would let go with a deep sigh and then tell me to make a U-turn at the next light. Then if I made a right turn instead...well, it was not a good relationship.

When I get really lost now, I call my wife and tell her the name of the cross streets and while she is starting to develop the same tone as Gypsy, the GPS lady, at least she loves me.

To be perfectly frank, I am still trying to learn how to use the cordless phones in our house. We have had them for 4 years, but I still haven't figured out how I can lose three phones all at once and have to run around digging under chair cushions and checking bathrooms and the dirty laundry baskets when the phone rings.

The world is just getting too complex for me. They even mess me up every time I go to the grocery store. You would think they could settle on something themselves but this sudden "Paper or Plastic?" every time I check out just knocks me for a loop. I bought some of those cloth reusable bags to avoid looking confused, but I never remember to take them in with me.

Now I toss it back to them. When they ask me, "Paper or Plastic?" I just say, "Doesn't matter to me. I am bi-sacksual." Then it's their turn to stare at me with a blank look. I was recently asked if I tweet. I answered, No, but I do toot a lot.."

P.S. I know some of you are not over 50. I sent it to you to allow you to forward it to those who are.

We senior citizens don't need anymore gadgets. The TV remote and the garage door remote are about all we can handle.


  

Monday, March 26, 2012

Anti-Aging Bashing by Jamie Lee Curtis

Jamie Lee Curtis
Jamie Lee Curtis, 53

North America needs more people like Jamie Lee Curtis.  She is appalled that our culture has associated the word "anti" before the word aging.  She wishes that we (as a North American culture) could embrace the "older and wiser" view of aging like many other cultures and populations around the world.  She says its a normal and natural process of life.

Jamie Lee Curtis looks great for her age.  She is 53 years young.  She also advocates for people taking good care of themselves.  She wants men and boys to honor their women and to speak appropriately about women.  You Go Girl!

See the full article here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2119346/Jamie-Lee-Curtis-disgust-Americas-fight-ageing.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

Cheers!
Angela Gentile

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Love Keeps Julia Roberts Looking Young

Julia Roberts 


Julia Roberts (44), well known actor in the USA, states that "love" is the secret to looking young.

She has a husband, three young children, and looks in the mirror once a day.  Happiness and the love of a good man, who she calls her Prince Charming, keep her looking good.

She also admits to keeping up "maintenance".

See the full story here: http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/arts-and-life/entertainment/celebrities/julia-roberts-love-keeps-me-looking-young-143768666.html

Have a great day!
Angela Gentile

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Living Longer and Being Happy About It


Laura Carstensen , Professor of Psychology and the Fairleigh S. Dickinson Jr. Professor in Public Policy at Stanford University, talks about the positivity factor:  How older people enjoy enhanced well-being in their later years. She believes that longer lives can and will improve quality of life at all ages.

The video is very inspirational and has great graphs and other visual aids.

See the video here (11:53): "TEDxWomen - Laura Carstensen" http://youtu.be/im0F91tUiek

Have a great day!
Angela Gentile

Friday, March 23, 2012

Preventing Falls in the Home

The dreaded trip, slip and fall.

There is an increased risk for falls in people aged 65 and over.  I came aross this short, helpful video on fall prevention in the home and wanted to share it here.  I have heard of many trips and falls in the home, resulting in devastating outcomes.  See this video for simple tips on how to make your home a no-fall zone.

Simple Ways to Create a No Fall Zone in Your Home:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Weti3W4LByQ

Have a great day,
Angela Gentile